Family Devotions, 4-Year-Old Preachers, etc.

To give a glimpse into our family life, I wanted to share on the theme of family devotions. Though our devotions schedule is far from regular, spending this kind of time together has proved to be be a special and enjoyable for us. It's a challenge to keep them meaningful for the adults and relevant for the kids. So, what's it look like? Well, we often have a short time of reading a Bible story, singing a couple songs together, and prayer. We are currently using a children's Bible story book and then each night one of the three oldest members of the family gets to choose a song (usually from a CD) that we sing along to. We don't sit around and solemnly sing, however. Most times we're burning off some of our supper calories by dancing around together. Juliana and Kai love to move to the music.

Bethany reading and Juliana checking out the pictures.

Daddy loves singing and dancing with his two little ones.


Other recent tidbits about the kids...

Juliana recently got a hair cut, a pretty significant one too. In the hot weather, having her hair off her neck will help to prevent the heat rash that she's often had in the past.


The new and improved Juliana!


One of Juliana's recent pretend activities has been leading church services. It's kind of a one-person show. She plays the roles of moderator, worship leader, and preacher.


"Testing, testing; is this on?"

Juliana makes a joyful noise and leads "the congregation" in one of her imaginative praise songs. Lyrics often include phrases that go something like this: "Jesus, you are the Christ; no one can do it. You are the one. Praise the God of the Lord!"

Though I have never heard her preach about being a peacemaker, I recently saw her practice it in her play. She was pretending to be the third of the "Three Little Pigs" and I was the "Big Bad Wolf." When I was tired of huffing and puffing at her brick house, I told her I wanted to come in so I could eat her. Her response surprised me; instead of taunting me or preparing boiling water under the chimney, she invited me in for a meal. She said something like, "Don't eat me. I'll make you some food." The Big Bad Wolf received her generosity, but was a bit baffled when he heard that both menu items were primarily pork products. (Maybe that explains what happened to the 1st and 2nd little pig...)

The third little pig with her delicious spread of "moo-suki ham sauce drink and too-ie vegetable drinking sausage ham"

Juliana and Kai wearing our motorbike helmets just after Bethany and I returned home from Khmer language class. Perhaps they will need some time to grow into them...

-Ryan

Ahhhhhh..... Family Vacation!

After the SEAARetreat, we took an overnight train across Thailand to Chiang Mai, to spend four relaxing days in Chiang Mai at the Juniper Tree, a resort for Christian missionaries/workers. We had our own Thai-style, wooden-stilted, two-room "cabin" to sleep in, and meals were served family-style in the main dining hall, where we got to know other workers over delicious Asian and Western food (and more amazing, homemade bread!). We swam in the pool, read, watched Veggie Tales, ate ice cream, went to the Maesa Elephant Camp as a family, and to the mall on a date as a couple. In other words, in was a wonderful vacation!!

Here are some excited, first-timers on the overnight train. After settling in, we watched a DVD on the laptop, and once our beds were made up, tried to sleep as much as we could with the many stops and starts of the train over the 13-hour trip.

Our first-class cabin was cozy, with two bunk beds which were about 30 inches wide. Juliana and Ryan were on the top bunk, with Bethany and Kai underneath. It wasn't the most restful night!

At the Juniper Tree, Juliana and Kai loved to play on the slide in the indoor play area of the dining hall.

Visiting a guinea pig on the property. It made us lonely for Dad/PaPa Umble. : )

The opening elephant parade at Maesa Elephant Camp, about an hour away from the resort.

The elephants were taught to paint with a brush held in their trunks, and were really good artists (for elephants)! Paintings were on sale from 1500-6500 baht ($42-$185). And the highlight was getting to actually ride an elephant for a half-hour, up-and-down-hill trip! It was a really fun experience, except that I was afraid Kai would fall out of my arms on the way down - he kept slipping off my lap due to the steep incline. Thankfully, no mishaps!

And a taste of Lancaster County in the Central Airport Plaza in Chiang Mai, Thailand!! On our date (Thanks, Debbie Coats!) we found an Auntie Anne's Pretzel shop and indulged in sweet, buttery goodness. Mmmmmmm!
-Bethany

SEAAR

We recently spent a week and a half in Thailand. The first 6 days were to join other missionaries and workers serving in Asia at the SouthEast Asia Anabaptist Retreat, or SEAAR. (The rest of the time was family vacation; more on that later.) We gathered an hour south of Bangkok at Baan Phu Waan, a Catholic training/retreat center, a beautiful campus on which to spend time connecting with new and old friends from six different agencies. Our theme was "Becoming a People of Prayer" and a highlight of the time was the worship and prayer times we had as a group. Childcare was provided by a short-term missions team (RMM's REACH) from the US serving in Thailand, so Juliana and Kai had fun making new friends too.

A time of prayer ministry for Julia Bange, missionary to the deaf in Philippines (DOOR), interpreted by her translator, Tina.

Storytelling with the youngest MKs.

Juliana's group cooled off one afternoon with water balloons and a hose. (White spot in foreground is J's balloon in mid-explosion. : )

Our family in the dining room, where we enjoyed many delicious meals, including the most amazing, homemade, raisin-nut-wheat bread!

- Bethany

Wedding Season

We'll be doing some catch-up posts, since while traveling and vacationing recently, we took a break from real life - including our blog. : )

It's that time of year... In April we attended two weddings in one week. On Saturday, April 25th, we attended the wedding of Sokheang and Rotha, friends from Phnom Penh Mennonite Church. Sokheang also directs the Men's Dorm. The wedding was held at the bride's home in Kompong Chnang, a province we'd never visited before. It was a good trip, with several Khmer friends joining us on the trip, and even more hitching a ride on the way home.

Weddings are a fun time to get REALLY dressed up and made up and socialize. Here's a table of friends having a good time at the nyam kaa (reception).

Here's a family photo from the day. Children don't usually get as decked out for weddings as the adults, and it was a good thing we didn't go to a lot of bother for Kai's outfit, since half of it came off as soon as we were done eating! It was a very, very hot day, but fun to celebrate with the newlyweds! Many blessings on your marriage, Sokheang and Rotha!

A Week to Remember

This past week, which marked the Khmer New Year, our family spent five days in a rural village in the province of Kompong Thom, about 3 hrs drive from Phnom Penh. We went in response to the invitation of our house helper, Ming Nyaw, staying with the family of her older sister. The experience was an excellent opportunity to learn more about Khmer culture and to experience rural Cambodian life. Though challenging in many ways, we are grateful for what we learned from the week.

The house was a traditional Khmer house, cement on ground floor and wooden on the second floor. It had electricity, and even a generator for when the village electric wasn’t available (a daily occurrence). There was a well nearby the house and water was pumped up through a hose to large cement holding troughs. When needed, water was then dipped out of these tanks to wash dishes, shower, or flush the toilet.

The owners of the house, the family of Nyaw's older sister, were farmers. They grew cashews, cucumbers, and some other vegetables. Here we are showing off cashew fruits. (The cashew grows in the seedpod on the top.)

The fruit is much larger than the nut, and is a bit bitter in taste. We had the opportunity to eat the fruit dipped in syrup made of palm sugar.

Khmer families typically gather together to celebrate the New Year, so we got to meet and interact with many of Nyaw’s relatives. One day we went with several of the youth and children to a small lake where we played in the water. Juliana and Kai had a grand time there! Later in the week we hiked a mountain together.

The youth/children enjoyed watching Kai eat and kept him entertained.

Proof that playing with cars is a boyhood activity that transcends age, language and culture.

One day we traveled an hour and a half to visit friends from Phnom Penh Mennonite Church. There we enjoyed visiting, and were served a tasty lunch. Juliana also enjoyed serving lunch... to the chickens! (She had good practice with her Paw-Paw’s chickens in Atglen, PA.)

Here we are with Nyaw (center in pink/black/white stripes) and some of her children and extended family members. We were on the grounds of a Buddhist pagoda, which also serves as a community gathering place for the Khmer New Year. Here we got to see some dancing (the group dances remind us a bit of country line dancing) and buy some drinks. Though there was not much in the way of farm animals, exhibits, or tractor displays, the whole event had the feel of a Lancaster County fall fair.

On Friday afternoon we were happy to arrive back home in Phnom Penh. We were feeling physically and emotionally tired from the lack of sleep, the lack of predictable routine, and the lack of space to just be alone as a family.

Our prayer is that God will continue to lead us into deeper understandings of Khmer culture. We aren't planning on giving up our American citizenship, but as servants of Christ, we want to follow the example of Paul, who said, "I have become all things to all men so that by all possible means I might save some."(I Cor 9:22) May God grant us grace to discover ways to clearly model and articulate God's truth and grace to our friends in this culture.

- Ryan

Turning Up the Heat

Indeed. It's getting rather warm here in Cambodia, and as the heat increases, so does the frequency of power outages. We've been blessed where we live to not experience as many and as lengthy blackouts as some other parts of the city (not sure exactly why), but it's still a bummer. Just when you really want to be able to count on consistent airflow from your nearest fan, you may instead be sitting in your sweat, praying for the power to come back on... : )

The change of temperature has also marked another change in the Umble home. We began a new schedule of language study last week - Ryan and I are studying together for the first time! We are taking the Institute of Foreign Language's Level II Khmer, and it's going really well. As you may recall, Ryan studied Level I there, but I spent the last 6 months with a private tutor. I was curious how it would be to jump in at the second level, not having taken IFL's first course, but so far, so good. We were also a bit concerned about the childcare situation, but needn't have worried. Nyaw, our house helper, agreed to lengthen her work day by an hour and a half to enable us to take the class together. (She hadn't really watched the kids before - we took turns studying and tending them ourselves.) Juliana and Kai are usually both napping when we leave for class at 3:30 pm, and then they play with "Om" (older aunt) until we return by 6:15 pm. We're thinking it will also be a boost for them to learn Khmer, as they play and communicate more directly with her. (No parents around for Juliana to request an English translation!)

Lokru (teacher) Phara, our professor at IFL is a jovial and knowledgeable instructor

"Om Nyaw" and her rambunctious charges

Next week is Khmer New Year, the biggest holiday of the year. It's actually three days long, but most of the city empties out for the entire week as people travel to their hometowns to celebrate with family. We'll be joining Nyaw and some of her children for a five-day visit to their relatives in Kompong Thom. We're looking forward to a lot of new cultural learning experiences, but we hear that it might be a week lacking in sleep due to the noisy, late-night festivities that accompany the celebration. We'll let you know all about it in a couple weeks! : )

- Bethany

Recent Highlights

Well, it's finally Spring! In the US the seasonal change is more drastic. Here it's just getting warmer and we are getting ready for April, the hottest month of the year in Cambodia.

Highlights of the past several weeks have been...
-Learning new songs to sing in Khmer and in English. Ryan bought some Khmer worship C.D.'s recently and Juliana has enjoyed learning Bible Story songs by listening to Focus on the Family's "Sing through the Bible" that her Auntie Joanne sent to her.

Juliana singing and drumming...

-Fun conversations with our house helper, Nyaw. We continue to find great joy in growing in our relationship with her. We also enjoy the opportunity for us to practice our language skills with her.

Nyaw with two of her daughters, their friends, and our little ones.

-Ryan bought a guitar with Christmas money and hopes to learn to play half as well as his older brother Randy. (Check out http://www.umbles.com/music.htm )

-Juliana has enjoyed biking, drawing, and speaking other languages. She is a self-proclaimed linguist. Besides English and some Khmer, she claims to be able to speak Korean, Chinese, Spanish, and German. If we try to join her in speaking her version of one of these languages, she is quick to say, "You're not saying it right!" She's sharp and creative, but at the present it's not very fun to be her student. :)

Biking and Walking.

-Kai enjoys using his little legs and has even occasionally practiced running. He's not at all interested in a pacifier/nuk, but we'll often find him with one of his cloths hanging out of his mouth. Especially during times of teething, he finds much comfort sucking on one of his cloths. In some ways, he reminds us of the "Peanuts"character, Linus.

The man and his cloth

Well, that's all for now. May you and your family enjoy the sights and sounds of Spring!

-Ryan

Dorm Retreat: To the Beach and Back Again!

The last weekend in February, our family had the pleasure of joining students from the Men's and Women's Dorms on the Annual Dorm Retreat. This time, the destination was the beach town of Sihanoukville, Kompong Saum Province. About forty Khmer and four Americans - us! - traveled on a rented tour bus about four hours to take a dip in the ocean, enjoy seafood-laden meals, play games, hear sharing from the Word, pray together, play on the beach, and visit a near-by rock formation/waterfall. On Saturday night, as the guest speaker shared and invited the students to consider placing their trust in Jesus Christ, two female students accepted the pastor's invitation! They were prayed for by the group, and we are excited by their steps of faith.

It was a lot of travel for a short weekend, but the journey there and back factored large in the whole experience. Our time on the bus included love song singing sessions (in a call/response style popular in Khmer Karaoke videos), rounds of worship music accompanied by guitar, guessing games and silly group games, and a Khmer comedy DVD. There were more stops (for snacks, potty, etc.) than the Americans thought necessary, who are used to trying to make time in "getting there." We reflected afterward that our Khmer friends live well the truth of the journey being more important than the destination. There were lots of opportunities en route to absorb Khmer language and culture, laugh, interact, learn more names, and join in the fun. We think the students are a great group of young people, and we really enjoyed the time together. Our kids did well, too (for the most part!). Sleeping with all four of us in one tiny room always has its challenges. By the time we arrived home Sunday night at 7 pm, we were exhausted! A full weekend, but we're looking forward to the retreat next year!

At one "pit stop," Kosal pretends to drive the bus

Singing a silly song Saturday evening

Juliana and her friend Sophea (So-PEE-a) play in the sand

Kai and Pengin by the beautiful, clear water

Our whole group, minus Sokheang, the cameraman (Sophal, WD Director, in white hat in middle)

- Bethany

Kids Walking and Talking...

Ah, the joy of having children! As any parent knows, there is something amazing about seeing one's children passing significant milestones. The biggest family news around here is that Kai's having fun learning how to walk around. Granted he sometimes looks like he's not quite sober as he stumbles around, but it's great fun to watch. We've praised his efforts so much that when he walks and we're not looking/praising, he does the cheering himself by saying something that is the equivalent of "Yea! I did it!" He's also becoming more adventourous in eating more "un-pureed big people food." He loves bread, bananas, oranges, and carrots. Below is a picture of the little guy before he had his face wiped after a messy meal.

Juliana continues to amaze us with the way her mind works. She is very observant and asks terrific questions. One of her favorite story books is one about the life of Job. As we read to her, her thoughful theological questions sometimes leave us with no other option but to say, "That's a great question Juliana, I'm not sure how to answer that..."

The way that Juliana articulates her love for her brother and her parents is also quite cute. During one meal she said, "I wanted to share my bread with 'bapes' (Kai's nickname, based on the word 'baby') because I love him and I want him to be my friend." Before going to bed one night, she said, "I love Daddy the best and Mommy the best and I don't want to get married because I want to stay with them." She's really thinking ahead isn't she? Below is a shot of the the little smirking girl. -Ryan

Fun with Parents/Grandparents-Part 3

Our vacation time together was a wonderful time of relaxing and connecting more with Mom and Dad/Maw-Maw and Paw-Paw.

Eating breakfast at the guesthouse where we stayed

Daddy and Juliana posing for a picture with a young crew of traditional "Apsara" dancers. We ate supper at a garden restaurant that also had a live show which included traditional Khmer music and dance.

And what would vacation in January be without some outdoor swimming! Here Kai and Paw-Paw enjoy splashing in the cool water.

Juliana's first experience in a jacuzzi was quite amusing. She laughed up a storm as she felt the jets shoot water against her legs. It was too funny!

At the close of Mom and Dad's time with us here in Cambodia, I asked them, "When people ask you how we are doing, what will you tell them?" After some thought they said that they will share that it seems we're adjusting well to life here. We were happy to hear this. As we continue to go through the "growing pains"of making Cambodia "home," it was helpful to see ourselves through Mom and Dad's eyes and to recognize the progress we've made in being ourselves, learners, and blessings here in this land.

-Ryan